Thinking

We think about certain things which bother us immensely. These things are completely outside our control and the more we think about these, the more it hurts us and drags us away from our aim.
Sometimes getting into a greater trouble makes us forget our smaller troubles. But that's not what we would ideally want!
We do need something that distracts we from these things which don't deserve any of our mind-space. Its like if we keep thinking about the meaning of life, we will forget to live.. And then the only way to find the meaning of life with force is to die. Instead if we just go on and live life every moment, life will itself present its meaning to us during one or many such moments that we truly live!
So its better to just stop thinking about those things and live what you get.. and mostly you will get what you want.. Instead of forcing these things to fall in place, which might make them get worse, just live what you experience, and then these things will let go too, and eventually present you with what you truly desire :)