Lighter view

i read somewhere once "life becomes much easier once you admit theres a part of you that likes to be miserable". but do we let that part take complete control of life? some events, in fact a LOT of events recently made me ponder over this. It becomes a weird cycle, you become miserable, and then more miserable thinking that you are miserable! and then all the essence of being you is sucked out, and all that is left is a heap of misery.. its very difficult to wriggle out of it, and a very high possibility that it might follow. so better not get into something we can't get out of right? and hence lets take the lighter view.. :)